
During vulnerable moments, we often become our own harshest critics. We fixate on thoughts that cause us pain, replaying them like a broken record.
Here’s what you should know: These thoughts are completely normal. Everyone experiences them. The key lies in learning not to get stuck in them.
Try This Practice: When your inner voice whispers things like: “I shouldn’t have said/done that…” “I’m worthless…” “I’m such a mess…”
Pause and:
Acknowledge the message: “Am I aware of how I’m treating myself right now?”
Shift to self-compassion: Respond with the kindness you’d offer a dear friend.
Identify 3 strengths (physical, emotional, or personality traits)
Acknowledge 3 growth areas (physical, emotional, or personality aspects)
List 10 lifetime achievements (big or small)